For many teens, BBYO becomes a second family. For me, it’s been both a second family and a way to strengthen my first. BBYO has given my sister and me opportunities to connect in ways we hadn’t before, from cheering each other on at programs to swapping stories about conventions. It’s been a journey full of surprises, growth, and a lot of laughter. However, it took us some time to get here, and we’ve had bumps along the way.

Throughout my sister’s 7th grade year, I hosted multiple programs, many of which I reluctantly let her participate in. When she began 8th grade, I was hesitant to let her into BBYO. It had become my home, the place where I felt safest, and I didn’t want her to invade that space. However, I also wanted her to experience the things I had: the endless love for my chapter, incredible friendships, and unique leadership opportunities. So, when she told me how excited she was for BBYO, I decided that she needed to join my chapter, and I would be glad to have her.

Her MIT term had its ups and downs for our relationship. I was terrified she’d steal my friendships or take my place, and she felt that fear. But I also realized how much I loved having her there. I always had someone to talk to at programs and debrief with on the ride home. We were finally getting closer, and I couldn’t have been more excited.

When the caucus opened for our spring term elections, she asked me if she should run. She doubted herself, asking, “What if no one votes for me?” I reassured her, sharing how nervous I had been at my first elections and how grateful I was for the older members who helped me find my place. I also told her how awesome it would be for us to be on board together and how I would support her along the way. Her confidence grew, and she decided to run for Sunshine Girl. When she was elected, I couldn’t have been prouder. I was elected Mazkirah, and suddenly, we found ourselves serving on board together.

The term was very successful, both for the chapter and for our relationship. Through board sleepovers and helping each other with responsibilities, we grew closer than ever. Now, in our second term together, I can proudly say how glad I am that my sister joined my chapter. BBYO didn’t just bring us closer—it transformed our relationship into a genuine friendship.

This sibling connection runs in the family. Decades before, my dad and his sister also found themselves united through BBYO. My aunt joined BBYO largely because of my dad, much like my sister did because of me. She joined my dad’s sister chapter, and they shared experiences of leadership, friendship, and connection. They’d swap stories about conventions and chapter traditions, just like my sister and I do now.

Hearing my dad’s stories, I realize how much BBYO is a thread that ties us together across generations. It’s a reminder that family isn’t just about shared blood; it’s about shared memories, challenges, and triumphs. BBYO has given my sister and me a bond we’ll carry for the rest of our lives, just like it did for my dad and aunt.

In my family, BBYO isn’t just a chapter in our lives—it’s a legacy, and I’m so grateful to be a part of it.

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